If you are not living erotically then you are already teasing and denying your husband – just not the fun, exciting, erotic, bonding enlivening, type of tease and denial. You are giving him the rejecting, frustrating, helpless, feel bad type of tease and denial. The tease is you. You are the woman he loves and wants and needs, but either can’t have and-or doesn’t have enough of. You looking sexy and beautiful to him, but he can’t touch and you don’t touch him is unfun, frustrating, deadening, derotic tease and denial. You looking sexy and beautiful for other people and situations which makes him want to kiss you and hug you and xxx and xxxx (with) you, but it doesn’t happen is unfun, frustrating, deadening, derotic tease and denial. and him wanting to kiss you, hug you. You are sex and love to him and if he can’t express it to and with you physically, sexually, sensually often and consistently in order to please you and feel your pleasure and you don’t express it to him physically, sexually, sensually, and in words (yes, dirty or erotic preferably) then even being around you is unfun, derotic, deadening tease and denial. If all you want or let him do is cuddle you then that is unfun, derotic, deadening tease and denial. Eventually,inevitably, he will give up hope.