Variety – the quality or state of having or including many different things or types; the quality or state of being different or diverse; the absence of uniformity, sameness, or monotony.
Variety is like novelty and can go hand-in-hand with novelty and it’s needed, like novelty, inside the bedroom and outside the bedroom for you, your husband, and your marriage.
Not just in what you do, when you do it, where you do it, but also how you do it, how ofen you do it, and even why.
Variety should be applied to almost any and every aspect of your life and your marriage/ relationship. It can mean date night outside the house. It can mean sexual activity. it can mean you are the submissive and he’s the domme and you get teased. It can mean date night inside the house. It can mean going to a bar or doing karaoke or going to an improv show instead of dinner and a movie. It can mean taking a new exercise class together or starting to train for a Spartan event.
Variety need not be expensive or time consuming or complicated.
Finding and incorporating variety is a great opportunity of getting outside the comfort zone and getting creative with your husband.
Having said that, there is a lot to be said for the tried-and-true and the nostalgic like dinner and a movie or petting then missionary.