All of these posts, this blog, presuppose that your husband is a good man, a good husband. That he loves you, wants you, likes you, and needs you. That he genuinely wants to make you happy and please you. That, if you have children, he is a good father. That he is supportive, affectionate, encouraging, loving, honest, trustworthy, proven, and committed. That he takes into account your feelings, thoughts, and desires in just about every decision he makes and everything he does. He wants to make you feel good, loved, and respected.